Anyway, back to the subject line. i think that far too often there's a misconception that being a Domme means being a man-hating bitch that wants nothing more than to suck up cash by any means necessary, to wreck marriages without a care and move on to the next poor sucker, ignorant to anything else that's going on in the world. It's always going to be a fine line. But to me there's no ethical struggle if a man voluntarily enters into an arrangement with a Domme and gets in over his head. The Domme didn't make him do that any more than a bartender made somebody an alcoholic or a poker player is at fault for taking their opponent's money. Now, do unethical people exist in the industry in some proportion? i'm sure they do. But it's probably no more common in the world of Femdom than the occasional bad apple that may exist in any more mainstream population. If you take the time to get to know people in this community, most Dommes (and subs) are really quite normal people. i wish more people understood this and acted accordingly.
Not that i needed reminding, but i was reminded of this when i woke up this morning and saw the horrible news out of Belgium and looked at my Twitter feed. Princess Sheridan was one of many Dommes i observed Tweeting not about the usual subject matter or promoting a clip, but instead expressing the very same frustration and outrage that any of us with a heart would feel. i immediately thought of Yuri, one of Her most loyal subs who lives in the general region and reached out to him with concern for his friends and family, as this certainly hit close to home for him. Fortunately his friends and family are safe. The overall point is that despite all of the crazy interactions, the humiliating tasks and demands, this is all mutual interaction and at the core of it there's an unspoken respect. i don't need to know every last thing about a Domme to recognize that She adheres to a solid code of ethics and can be trusted. i'm proud to know people with that kind of character in all walks of my life, including and especially in the BDSM community. If you take the time to get to know many of these people you'll find that they are extremely thoughtful and even more "normal" and respectful than those you may come across in mainstream interactions. i've only been in contact with Princess Sheridan and some of Her subs for a few months at this point, but it doesn't take long to figure out that these are good people. i mean, yeah, Princess seems to take great delight in seeing me get my ass fucked, paddled to the point of tears, and making me humiliate myself in any way that might please Her. But i can see beyond all that. :)
It's funny because when i think back to my original interactions with Princess Sheridan after i ordered the first custom from Her, when She first asked whether my situation with my Wife was real and showed interest in talking to Her, my initial reaction was indeed one of caution. Just in case She really was one of those Dommes looking to play out some kind of unethical blackmail/homewrecker scenario out on me! Her response said it all and i was immediately comfortable:
Homewrecker? LOL! I wouldn't dream of fucking up what you have. I wish all My subbies have what you have. When the time comes I would love to talk to your much much better half. Just us... not you. Of course you'll find out about what we talk about at the opportune moment :p I hope this gets this far eventually. All up to you.
i probably don't need to elaborate on how awesome that was and why Princess Sheridan is just amazing. "From Fantasy to Reality" in Her clip store is the culmination of all of this. Who knew? She didn't have to do that. i certainly didn't directly ask for it. But three months later, here we are. i mean seriously look at where we freaking are lol. This has all been beyond belief.
Clearly, in order for a Domme to be a Domme, image is important. If every Domme just shared their philosophies and real feelings all the time and didn't post sexy pics and talk down to their subbies, there would be no business. That said, i can honestly say that the most rewarding interactions i've had with any Domme have just involved speaking with them on a more real, intelligent level and getting to know the real person a bit more outside of just the fetishes and kinks. When that connection is made, it's a lot sexier to share Domme/sub experiences from there. To me there's nothing sexier than a Woman getting into an intelligent man's head and then using that knowledge and Her sexuality to make him stupid. :) It's certainly worked with my Wife Goddess D, and it works with Princess Sheridan,
A Domme's life is just so much more fascinating than most random acquaintances. Even if i'm not on the receiving end and actually being dominated, i love sharing all the stories and experiences with people in the community we have connected with, and i feel like we're just barely scratching the surface!
As things develop further between Goddess D and i and this clip store, Princess Sheridan continues to be at the forefront as an influence. Every day Goddess is more and more capable, but we still both so very much appreciate all that Princess brings to the table as a mentor to Goddess D and as a Domme to me. It's actually become pretty clear that much of what Princess finds entertaining is not very compatible with most of my Femdom-related interests. But honestly it doesn't even matter. i would be a freaking idiot to not recognize what a great situation this is. Even if certain things are unpleasant, i'm being forced to do unpleasant things for two incredibly attractive Dommes, and that in itself is a dream come true!
Enough babbling for one night though. i'll leave you with a pic from an upcoming clip that seems to be one of Goddess D's more popular ones on Twitter lately. i was desperate for air but yet in heaven at the same time. Such conflicting feelings!
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